ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE

Adoi pening sungguh dgn  new blog interface ni...tu lah pandai2 lg pi tukar to new interface.  dh lama dh nk update blog ni. Tp x jumpa iconnya. Berpusing2 cari. Finally dapat juga. Ok sebenarnya nak cerita apa hari ini.... orait about marriage, getting married for the 2nd time, married at older age or taking another wife..... 

Recall balik ok, last month a friend of mine got married for the 1st. time, ok at age of 50, alhamdullillah, bertemu jodoh juga dia, i am very happy for her.. but she's not the only wife... as long as she can accept that & going thru the marriage with the knowledge that life would not be easy & she has to prepare herself, be strong & patient, i think she should be ok. I am praying for her happiness. 

Last week pulak, got an invitation from a friend, a male friend. He is getting married this coming June. I thought he is taking a 2nd wife, but no no no, this will be his 2nd marriage, jodoh x panjang with the 1st marriage... wow, so ez for man i guess. I met him in Dec. 2011, i mean we attended reunion together. He even showed us his family photo.. that was wat, four months ago... now he is getting married.... wow... i have been divorced for 23 years, never remarry... hemmm. I wish him happiness & hope he found what he is looking for. To me, there's must be something missing in his 1st marriage  dats why it doesn't work. Hope he will find watever he is looking for in his 2nd marriage.

Orait... today this morning.. an old friend introduce me to his 2nd wife.... i was like "what".... i really thought he has only 1 wife. Jodoh org kan.... he told me, he has been married for d 2nd time for 11 years & the 1st wife doesn't know about it.... wow pandai kawan aku yg sorang ni simpan rahsia. Now he asked me to keep this secret for him.... insyaAllah.

Tu lah kan, jodoh memasing.... ada org, kawin cerai kawin cerai macam tukar baju... even my x pun got married twice after me... the present wife is the 3rd marriage for him. Ada org, kawin 1,2,3 or 4.... & me.... after 23 years still remain single... alhamdullillah, ini yg Allah takdirkan buat aku.